SOME SHITTY BEHAVIOUR YOU NEED TO AVOID WHILE CHATTING
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This is just but a tip of the iceberg of what am talking
about,
ME: Hi
You: Hi
Me: How was your day?
You: It was k
Me: Mine was awesome
You: Silence……
If I remember my English classes well, for an effective
conversation to run smoothly it’s apparent that both parties participate.
Regardless of how shitty or grisly your day was, ignoring the person on the
other end is really so unfathomable and totally disgusting.
Take for instance if you were really in high spirits and
wanted to deliver some good news to the other person. But the moment you start
the conversation, you are met with lots of ‘K’ and some really short answers
that just totally turn you away. If you ask me if it was a job you were being
offered there is no chance for you getting it. Not a whisker. As I recall my
chemistry classes well K was a symbol for a chemical called Potassium . Whatever
it does in conversations these days I have no freaking idea. Let’s just say we
have really evolved. We are in a crazy generation as my parents would say.
It’s usually cool not to drag your mood into a conversation.
Better still you can always excuse yourself for not being in the mood at that
time. The other person is only human and will surely understand. It’s so silly
ruining the other person’s day or mood with your stupid attitude. It’s like a
teacher or lecturer arguing with the wife in the morning and coming to vent
leftovers of the anger on the innocent students. Everybody becomes pissed. The
message home is to keep some of your problems to yourself and not ruin other people’s
moods. Besides we all got our problems.
If I text you at 7pm there is no reason why you should text
back two hours later and to make matters worse in a one word. The least you can
do is include your apology and at least give any fake reason. You kept me
waiting on the other end remember, and there is no reason why you should act
like a boss with the don’t care attitude. Some people go take a shower, iron,
talk to a neighbor, feed a pet, rush to town before remembering to reply back.
The mood is already gone. Actually the best way to deal with it is to excuse
yourself and let the other person know that you won’t be able to text back fast
enough.
Finally, chatting, texting, having a conversation is a two
way thing. Save for when you are giving a speech that’s when you become the
bigger boss. Don’t ignore the other person because it wouldn’t be fun if you
are the one being ignored. Its not like a doctor patient conversation or
teacher to student affair where by the other person gets to ask the question
and you get to answer. Further, it’s not an interview. It’s for both parties to
participate and not make it look like a one sided affair. If I ask you how your
day was its only prudent that you tell me how it was and ask me how mine was.
You don’t answer and expect me to tell you how mine was. HAVE A SPLENDID
CONVERSATIONAL TIME, WONT YOU?
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